at the family members making statements that they obviously don't know too much about and therefore putting doubt in your mind.

Have confidence in yourself and your body

I was going to reccomend the naturopath. I had a health issue a few months back and bfing DD didn't make it easy, for sure i wondered if weaning would make it better but DD was only 6-8 months and there was no way i was going to consider it. I was put on some fish oil (disgusting but i can't wait to get me some more) and a probiotic. In the naturpaths words 'treating me from the inside out' and it helped immensely. It does sound like maybe your body could do with an extra boost and hopefuly you can get that and your DD will benefit from it at the same time

Good luck xo